To start off, are you totally relaxed when it comes to approaching girls that you do not know? If so, keep reading, if not, you have what is called “approach anxiety”. Approach anxiety is basically being afraid of approaching women & many many men have it. Its a widespread issue. You MUST cure your approach anxiety first before you do anything else. Click here now to cure your approach anxiety in less than 30 days.
Now onto the lesson……..
A huge roadblock guys run into on their way to greater success with girls is getting the girl you want to accept your offer of going on a date. I understand that going from the bar to the bedroom (also known as a same night lay) may be what you really want, but for most men knowing how to get a date is what’s going to bring on most of their success with girls.
One of the first major parts to your dating skillset is knowing how to get a girl to say yes to your offer consistently. Setting up a date the proper way will mean few cancelations and much less predate flaking. Below is exactly what you want to do to ask a girl you just met out on a date.
1. Create a plan- Come up with a great or intersting date in
advance that you’ll use time & time again. Something that
really gets girls excited or interested. it may also be
a crazy dive bar on Thursday evening or whatever else. Just be
unordinary & make sure its something girls will love to do.
2. Plant the “Seed”- Accidentally mention it, or something about it
to her early on in your conversation without asking her
to go with you on the date.
3. Oversell it but don’t ask her yet- When you let her in on your
special plan, make sure it seems incredibly cool & extremely
interesting or anything you feel the girl will react well to,
but DON’T INVITE HER! This is key. She will be thinking to herself “Why
isn’t this dude asking me? Almost any other pussy out there can not wait
to ask me out. I wonder if this guy even likes me?”
4. Ask her through a qualifier- A few minutes or even an hour
later, use a qualifying question that is date related,
then invite her. For instance, if earlier you said you had
these super fun dinner/cocktail get togethers, ask her a qualifying question by saying
“I usually only let girls who can cook come to my party, are
you a good cook?” This is a qualifying question. Then invite
the girl by stating “Ok, ok…..you can come if you want, you really earned it. I
love a woman that cooks.(Or at least isn’t afraid of cooking)
5. Get her number for a confirmation call- Right after that ask her for her
number. You could even give her your phone and say “here, type
your # into my phone and I’ll call you with the details.”I love
to make up a funny nickname for each girl on the spot and put it
into my cell.
After you have finished with the 5 steps, you should be money and it will
also prevent a lot of date flaking and canceling. This happens to be an excellent technique for
getting the date because you can’t just blurt it out & say you wanna take her on a date
which shows that she has power over you….Instead you flip it around
and get the girl to actually qualify herself to you even before you ask her on a date.
She is now chasing you
and this is right where you want her.
But, the moment you go on a date is a totally different story. You really must learn how
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