My Personal Advice to Flirting with Girls

Let’s talk about how to flirt with a woman. Flirting doesn’t have to be very challenging, and it’s actually pretty fun once you learn the ropes.

However before we get into this, let me make a point. Flirting should be enjoyable. Don’t take it too seriously, and don’t just shout out creepy comments to girls because that’s not fun. That’s just a waste of time that won’t get you any results.

Don’t forget that flirting should communicate two messages. First, it lets her know that you interest in her. And flirting should also leave the woman feeling better about herself.

Okay, so this is how to flirt with a girl:

The first part of flirting is to let her know that you are interested in her. The reason behind this is that it lets her know that you want to be more than friends without being blunt about it. The most way to get this point across to the woman is to tell her that she is sexy. Not nice. Not hot. But sexy!

Now you can’t just tell her this coming from nowhere. If you do that, you’ll just turn into one of those drunk jerks she always complains about at bars. This is where the second part of flirting becomes important.

Flirting should be a uplifting experience for the girl. You have to talk to a girl first to evaluate her mood before you try to flirt with her or else you run the risk of striking a nerve. Have her contribute a little bit of herself to the experience. Let her tell you something personal about herself. Then take that as an opportunity to flirt with her.

Here is an example of what you can follow on how to flirt with a girl. If she’s studying French in college, then ask her to say something in French. Then after she says something, say something like “Okay, you can’t talk to me in French anymore. It’s too sexy and I can’t handle it.”

Did you notice? I just told her that I found her sexy and complimented her on something she shared.

Now she could keep the momentum going and flirt back. If it’s her style she could try speaking in French for the rest of the night just to see what would happen to me. It really can be that simple.

Another technique is to try using the power of pushing and pulling. You begin by telling her something that appears like you are pushing her away. Then you follow that up by quickly pulling her back in with a compliment. This builds up some tension that will stop her from thinking you are dull.

Okay, let’s examine that last example.

“Okay, you can’t talk to me in French anymore.” — This is the push at the start. It comes off like I’m rejecting her.

“It’s too sexy and I can’t handle it.” — This part is the following pull. You just have to change an insult into a compliment.

This is the secret to flirting with a woman. It’s not very challenging, though it might take a bit of practice to turn it into a habit. The benefits of learning this is going to be more than worth it for you. So get out there and meet some women.

Brian Broderick used to be a shy “nice guy” that was totally clueless with women. Now in a relationship with his perfect woman, he enjoys helping other men reach their dating goals.

If you enjoyed this article, also check out How to Flirt with Girls, Conversations with Women, and Review of Double Your Dating.

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